The average guy will need to do many things to find success:
1. Put up and maintain a good profile filled with pictures, fill it out with interesting information.
2. Search for women to message because women will almost never message him (even if they’re interested)
3. Make sure his message is interesting and unique regardless of the content of the woman’s profile.
The average women needs to:
1. Put up and maintain a good profile filled with pictures, fill it out with interesting information.
2. Wait and pick from the many messages she gets.
The promise that online dating will help you "save time" by helping you connect with thousands of local singles is an illusion, an illusion sold to introverted nerds eager to buy the notion that they can insulate themselves the terrifying task of approaching a woman they find desirable in person and risk rejection.
Most guys on dating sites will spend 10+ hours a week reading profiles and writing unique messages and 99% of your messages will never get a response regardless of what you write.
Online dating is a terrible Return on Investment. You can easily spend 10+ hours per week on a dating site and lucky to get a single response for the week. I am not saying I am entitled to get any response but darn it 10 hours in return for one message is a huge waste of time. I could be doing more enjoyable things with my time than reading profiles and sending unique messages to profiles that will not respond 99% of the time.
Last edited by Phoenix20 - on 05 March 2021
