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Majora said:
JWeinCom said:

Can you have an orgasm through anal sex? I assume gay men like orgasms, and I thought stimulating the penis was the way to get there. Anal sex to me seems like it'd be like getting a blowjob that never gets finished off.

And, I'm just not into anal stuff in general. Like... I wouldn't push a girl to do it. I kind of feel like it's something I don't imagine I'd enjoy, so I assume she wouldn't either. If a girl really wanted it... I guess I'd try it? But so far I've never been put on the spot.

I do like orgasms, however - I don’t have sex purely to reach climax. It is possible to orgasm anally, but it isn’t the point of sex (for me, anyway). I find too many people go into sex aiming straight at the orgasm, but I think that’s a waste and also means a lot is missed out on. All I can tell you is, anal sex (for me) feels incredible, so no short straws drawn!

In terms of Herero sex, it’s completely common for straight couples to engage in anal sex. It’s rather funny to think about, but if around 10% of the global population is gay (and even lower if we’re talking about gay men as opposed to including lesbians) then most of the anal sex going on in the world is going on between a man and a woman. Don’t have nightmares, haha! 

Oh, I've seen plenty of anal sex between men and women. It doesn't bother me, just not something I'd want to partake in.