Liking something Gay folks like makes you gay as much as liking pasta makes you Italian.

[Majora]

JWeinCom said:

SvennoJ said:

You can have orgasms in many ways without any simulation to the penis.

I guess if you have to put a label on it, what makes you gay is if you fall in love with someone from the same sex. I mean, if you're into group sex or orgies, it doesn't make you a polygamist.

I dunno. I think it would be based on sexual attraction wouldn't it?

I know some people who are bi but only have relationships with one or the other. And people who have sex and never seem to form emotional bonds. If someone likes sex with the same gender, I'd say they're gay even if they don't love them. 

Yeah, I agree with you here. I think it’s the same sex physical attraction that makes someone gay. I don’t think love factors in gender or sex at all. I’ve had sex with many men whom I didn’t love, and I’ve felt deep love for both men and women. I’m in no way bisexual at all when it comes to physical sex, but I have been in love with a woman or two that went beyond simply platonic.