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Majora on 15 February 2021
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JWeinCom said:
Majora said:

This is how I can tell you’re a straight guy, haha! Many men, myself included, are exclusively bottom because we love how it feels! It’s absolutely not the raw end of the deal and there are many gay men who only take the “passive” (bottom) role, just as there are many who only take the “active” (top) role. Many also alternate (flip/flop) and many gay men do not like anal sex at all, whether in giving or receiving. My main source of bemusement has always come from the cliché of gay men “bending over” - out of all the thousands of times I’ve had sex, the amount of time I’ve spent bent over is minimal. I guess it just shows an extreme lack of imagination or lack of understanding of human anatomy. 

This is a really weird thread but also kinda cool to be able to talk openly about this stuff. I’m not a prude and love sex but it’s still cool when you see gay and straight people talk about gay sex - after all, I hear/see a lot about straight sex or sexuality in the media (of course I would, most people are straight, I don’t see this as a problem). 

Can you have an orgasm through anal sex? I assume gay men like orgasms, and I thought stimulating the penis was the way to get there. Anal sex to me seems like it'd be like getting a blowjob that never gets finished off.

And, I'm just not into anal stuff in general. Like... I wouldn't push a girl to do it. I kind of feel like it's something I don't imagine I'd enjoy, so I assume she wouldn't either. If a girl really wanted it... I guess I'd try it? But so far I've never been put on the spot.

I do like orgasms, however - I don’t have sex purely to reach climax. It is possible to orgasm anally, but it isn’t the point of sex (for me, anyway). I find too many people go into sex aiming straight at the orgasm, but I think that’s a waste and also means a lot is missed out on. All I can tell you is, anal sex (for me) feels incredible, so no short straws drawn!

In terms of Herero sex, it’s completely common for straight couples to engage in anal sex. It’s rather funny to think about, but if around 10% of the global population is gay (and even lower if we’re talking about gay men as opposed to including lesbians) then most of the anal sex going on in the world is going on between a man and a woman. Don’t have nightmares, haha!