SvennoJ said:
JWeinCom said:
Can you have an orgasm through anal sex? I assume gay men like orgasms, and I thought stimulating the penis was the way to get there. Anal sex to me seems like it'd be like getting a blowjob that never gets finished off. And, I'm just not into anal stuff in general. Like... I wouldn't push a girl to do it. I kind of feel like it's something I don't imagine I'd enjoy, so I assume she wouldn't either. If a girl really wanted it... I guess I'd try it? But so far I've never been put on the spot. |
You can have orgasms in many ways without any simulation to the penis.
I guess if you have to put a label on it, what makes you gay is if you fall in love with someone from the same sex. I mean, if you're into group sex or orgies, it doesn't make you a polygamist. |
I dunno. I think it would be based on sexual attraction wouldn't it?
I know some people who are bi but only have relationships with one or the other. And people who have sex and never seem to form emotional bonds. If someone likes sex with the same gender, I'd say they're gay even if they don't love them.