Liking something Gay folks like makes you gay as much as liking pasta makes you Italian.

[Majora]

JWeinCom said:

I'm fine if a straight guy likes being pegged, but the analogy is iffy. I would say anal sex is a bit more integral to the gay man experience than eating pasta is to being Italian (yeah I know gay men don't all do it, but I'd assume it's more prevalent than pasta loving). I just think there's a stronger connection between how you choose to have sex and your sexuality than your food preference and your nationality.

Speaking of italians and choice of sex though, I remember an episode of the Sopranos where Tony was making fun of another mobster for going down on his girlfriend cause apparently eating out a woman is considered gay, at least in the universe of the Sopranos. "Do I smell pussy on your breath? Fucking homo!"

Also, really not sure why I gay man would choose only to be a bottom. Seems like the raw end of the deal. Being a top only is good work, if you can get it I guess. If I were gay I'd definitely use some kind of rotation system. Also, I would alternate who gets to be top or bottom.

This is how I can tell you’re a straight guy, haha! Many men, myself included, are exclusively bottom because we love how it feels! It’s absolutely not the raw end of the deal and there are many gay men who only take the “passive” (bottom) role, just as there are many who only take the “active” (top) role. Many also alternate (flip/flop) and many gay men do not like anal sex at all, whether in giving or receiving. My main source of bemusement has always come from the cliché of gay men “bending over” - out of all the thousands of times I’ve had sex, the amount of time I’ve spent bent over is minimal. I guess it just shows an extreme lack of imagination or lack of understanding of human anatomy. 

This is a really weird thread but also kinda cool to be able to talk openly about this stuff. I’m not a prude and love sex but it’s still cool when you see gay and straight people talk about gay sex - after all, I hear/see a lot about straight sex or sexuality in the media (of course I would, most people are straight, I don’t see this as a problem).