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I'm fine if a straight guy likes being pegged, but the analogy is iffy. I would say anal sex is a bit more integral to the gay man experience than eating pasta is to being Italian (yeah I know gay men don't all do it, but I'd assume it's more prevalent than pasta loving). I just think there's a stronger connection between how you choose to have sex and your sexuality than your food preference and your nationality.

Speaking of italians and choice of sex though, I remember an episode of the Sopranos where Tony was making fun of another mobster for going down on his girlfriend cause apparently eating out a woman is considered gay, at least in the universe of the Sopranos. "Do I smell pussy on your breath? Fucking homo!"

Also, really not sure why I gay man would choose only to be a bottom. Seems like the raw end of the deal. Being a top only is good work, if you can get it I guess. If I were gay I'd definitely use some kind of rotation system. Also, I would alternate who gets to be top or bottom.