| curl-6 said: Well, just got back from my first date since March. So that's progress. She's super nice but I'm just not attracted to her physically, so I'll try to be friends with her. I get the feeling she wants more than that though so I'll have to let her down easy which I hate as it makes me anxiety go into overdrive; I feel terrible when I make others feel bad. It was a big step forward for me to meet her, it's my first in-person meeting with a non family member in months and I was really scared with my OCD in overdrive as it is, but I managed somehow. I've matched with a few hotties over the last couple weeks but they never seem to message back, I'm still not nailing those opening lines it seems. |
I'll be honest here.
The hotties general end up not so hotties when they get older.
What I found is women that are a solid 6-8 (without makeup) stay at that. Women that we perceive to be a 9/10 generally by their mid 30s end up looking like a 4-5.
If they have an interesting personality and can hold a conversation, that is more attractive in a long term relationship then a 9/10 hottie. Most relationships that I found in my circles to last long are once that were not born out of lust but other time. The ones that were lust driven ended when the magic as they call it wore off.
