numberwang said:
Nothing, you just need a good profile (pics) and text that gets their attention. Second or third message should be a general "do you have plans for the week/end?" or "I am interested seeing you irl". Next message should be more specific with date and time. This will weed out time wasters as well. Most guys get a 5:1 match to irl date ratio. |
One date every five matches? Is that some kind of sorcery? Most women don't even reply to my first message.
It's a lot easier with men, but I don't dare to look for men while being in my hometown, honestly.
OT, it's not worth it, in my opinion and personal experience. You basically have the full functionality for free, and I don't know how much of a difference paying would make. Besides, of all the apps I've tried, this is the one that's given me the worst results: one date in three-four years of almost daily use, while in other apps I can get a date within a few weeks. The only cons of these other apps is that there aren't many people using them, so I can basically check every single profile that could interest me in a matter of days and then there's nothing else to do.
I'm mostly a lurker now.