What is your sexual orientation?

[S.Peelman]

curl-6 said:

S.Peelman said:
Straight.

But I suck at it though. I mean, not in the sense that I secretly date men, but in the sense that I don't date women because I'm socially.. awkward? Not really the right word. Clumsy perhaps. Yeah. It's a big problem.

I know that feeling man. I take to courtship like a stegosaurus to figure skating. Figuring out what to say and then saying it with exactly the right tone, facial expression, etc is just so impossibly complicated.

dark_gh0st_b0y said:

the story of my life man 😂
date without taking things too seriously, it takes a while but comes more naturally later on

straight

sex is overrated btw, I don't understand why it's so important in this modern world, why do people's lives have to revolve around sex, why does it have to be main topic everywhere, music, media, movies... there are better, long term things to invest our time on, but well, it triggers almost every human being since hormones is some of the very few things we all have in common, and the media use it to make their things appealing --D sex included=money

Verter said:

I'm with you both on this. Also, sometimes it's hard for me to read the intentions of people, which only makes it more difficult to react or answer accordingly. And that's when opportunities of having sex or more meaningful relationships fly away.

Thanks. Yeah with me it’s that I’m not that much of a people’s person to begin with, I don’t really like parties for example. I like it calm, and when I go out to do things I’d like to do things alone. Which limits the amount of people I meet in general. I am also extremely picky when it comes to choosing people I actually want to keep being around and even pickier about actually liking a girl.

I don’t really like someone in that way very often. I can talk with any random person just fine, a friend, someone on the street, except it gets clumsy when I actually like someone. And getting clumsy about something that’s rare from the start doesn’t really help.

Last edited by S.Peelman - on 21 October 2020