J.K. Rowling Writes about Her Reasons for Speaking out on Sex and Gender Issues

[DonFerrari]

Ka-pi96 said:

RenCutypoison said:

That's the whole point. The focus on genitalia (once again, none of your fuckin business except for the trans people you are intimate with) is toxic.

Sexual attraction isn't even based on genitalia. OBVIOUSLY, if you have a problem with the other person genitalia don't fuck them. But that shouldn't be a discussion in a transphobia related thread. Cis people here care moren about trans genitalia than most trans people.

Same shit with the whole pre-op/post-op dichotomy. It's a very personal thing, and most trans people won't tell their coworkers which surgery they had but somehow that's relevant to random internet people ? 

Which surgery btw ? That's a usually a good question for cis peeps.

Then you must have missed the whole point since it was quite clearly a post about people that you would be intimate with, so genitalia does matter.

You really need to get over your entitlement though. If people don't want to date/fuck you for whatever reason then they have every right to say no. You're not entitled to them.

There is 7 Billion people in the world each with different physical and mental attributes.

We likely only get potentially attracted by 1-10% of that population each, and it is mostly based on silly things like hair color, skin collor, height, weight, etc. Most doesn't really mean anything in the end, some can potentially mean for procriation, we are still based on those instincts of viable and healthy offspring. But no sane person will say that you have 10 different phobias to justify you not getting atracted by the other 90-99% of people in the world.

Myself I rarely find a black girl attractive, but have dated some and they were just gorgeous. My taste is mostly for blonde blue eyed, still I married, love and find gorgeous my japanese-italian descendent wife. That have nothing to do with biggotry, it is just what visually attract us at the first moment, then on second moment we are going to learn more about that person and truly generates feelings and pursue a relationship. Anyone trying to neglect visuals for first contact or trying to portray that as discrimination is basically wrong. Also sure that anyone that only concerns with physical appearance and neglects all the other features of a partner is quite dumb as well.

Summary, only the person know why or what attracts him and labeling that person because of that person's reasonings is just wrong.