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SwitchUP on 02 February 2020
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curl-6 said:
SwitchUP said:

I havent heard any updates on your prognosis, but I sincerely hope it's a positive one. 

Now, as far as your second part of your comment... a little self confidence goes a long, long way. I'm not a 10, but I've always had self confidence... I guess being 6' 4" and 210 helps.. sorry, anyway.... 

You seem like a good dude, and that goes a long way. Be more straightforward, more blunt and say what you want to say. Dont beat around the Bush. When you describe yourself, describe yourself in a positive way, no matter what. 

I hope everything works out... in both areas of your life. Take care of yourself. That's the most important thing. 

Thanks man. At the moment prognosis seems fairly good; my PET scans earlier this month said it hadn't spread beyond the primary tumor, and I'm currently midway through a course of radiation therapy. 

Date tonight went okay; just got home. Her English was great so it was much easier to communicate and we had a good ol' chat. Dunno if she likes me in "that" way, though I get the sense she's looking for something more serious and long term, which I'm not given the circumstances. If nothing else I think at least we could be friends.

That's awesome man. I'm truly happy to hear that theres positive news as far as that goes. I nearly lost my mom when I was 15.... it destroyed me... but that old Portuguese woman wouldnt be stopped, haha. Thank god... I dont know what I'd have done without my mom... shes the most amazing person I've ever known.... anyway, I'm glad things are looking good for you. Keep your head up, and always try to be upbeat... I know... sometimes easier said than done. 

I'm happy that you're having some good times with the dating.... but, if I may say one thing... and I'm not trying to over step here.... unless you just dont want anything long term, just because you dont, then that's all good.... but if you do, regardless of what's happening.... dont prevent yourself from the happiness you deserve. If you meet a good woman, and you're thinking... shit, she could be the one.... as long as she knows what you're up against.... go for it. 

Here's to an amazing and prosperous future for you my friend. God is with you.... and so am i... for what its worth.