Pemalite said:
I am part of the LGBT community... And from what a ton of Trans people have told me, it's that they feel they are trapped in a body that doesn't belong to them. |
I think in general we should try to limit gender reassignment surgery as much as possible. Not on any kind of moral grounds or anything, but simply on the basis that we always want to use the least extreme medical intervention as possible, and surgery is a pretty extreme option. If a doctor/psychiatrist decides it's truly the best option, then I'm for it, but if there is a way to make trans people feel comfortable with themselves without surgery, I think that would be preferable.
As for feeling trapped in a body, I just don't get that. As a male, I really have no concept of what being a man means beyond physical factors and in most, but definitely not all, circumstances being more in line with societal expectations for a man than a woman. I don't know what "feeling like a man" inside would mean beyond acting in line with societal expectations of a man. And I'm, not sure the gym example is comparable. Like, do you feel that you want to be more muscular or fit than you are? I get that. But do you feel like you somehow really are that fit and muscular on the inside and it's just somehow not showing? That I don't really get. And from my understanding, being trans is less about wanting to be the other gender, but more of feeling that you already are.
Maybe it's just one of those things you have to experience, and because I identify with the gender I was born as, I haven't ever really had to question it. But it's still something I can't really wrap my head around.
Last edited by JWeinCom - on 05 September 2019