60fps is never going to be standard on console. I remember it being claimed/hoped of every new generation since the days of the N64 that "next gen will be 60fps as standard" and it never happens. Most AAA devs will always choose to double their rendering budget by going with 30fps.
And if that truth isn't sad enough, we probably won't ever have any chance to choose between performance and visuals even though that's easily possible. But I guess giving people options would be a death sentence for consoles.
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