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Dark_Lord_2008 said:

Confidence doesn't make you attractive, being attractive makes you confident. It has hard to be a confident man when you have experienced failure and rejection from people because you are an unattractive man. Being rejected all the time is a indicator that you are an unattractive man and there is no point in trying. Failure does not build confidence. No game or confidence will ever turn things around and make you attractive.

Choosing signals must be there for a woman to choose a guy based on his looks. So many guys are never going to be chosen by the female because the dating game heavily favours the best looking guys. There is no confidence, no game needed at all. Good looking unemployed dead beat losers and criminals with no career and they still attract women because they have good looks. It is all about the looks and if anyone tries and says it is not they are lying.

I hate the loser guys that defend every woman I try to talk to and they insult me, abuse me and try to provoke me. So many guys are smug jerks looking to start on me, they slander me and provoke me. Most of the guys are insecure losers and they try to gain power by beating guys like me down. Bullies are cowards and they hate it when people stand up to them and take them on. The best move is to ignore them and walk away because they are not worth it.

I know plenty of guys have the attitude of the loser guys that would try and insult me and make stuff up about me for no reason and gang up on me. I hate that nonsense and it has no place in a civilised world. Men are violent by nature and they are competing for the right to get women. All of that is nonsense because it is the woman that selects the guy regardless of his personality or confidence.

Guys spend hours in a bar talking to women about career and hobbies and there is no real attraction and no connection. Handsome guy walks in and gets 3 numbers within 20 mins and all the women were flirting and interested in his hot looks. This scenario happened to me and has probably happened to many guys. Personality, confidence, charm, social skills and all that other nonsense does not matter. It is all about the looks.

Please save this for your incel forums. This is about genders, not people blaming everyone but themselves for their misery.



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