| Qwark said: I don't think so, but if not being attracted to anything with a dick means being transphobic I will wear the label with no shame. |
I am a guy and I have a boyfriend. I love fucking guys and I am instantly turned on by effeminate MEN. So its like saying I have a preference for men up until they dress up like girls. In my mind, If I want to be with a girl, I will be with a girl and if I want to be with a guy then thats what I want. There is inherently so prejudice built into my preferences but as a member of any culture that is damn near unavoidable. So then the most healthy reaction you could have had is the one you did have because it is natural and you admitted basically the same thing as me. That is really her point. Her word choice is alwful because it is understood that phobia usually mean irrational fears where here she means prejudice in its most honest definition: preference.
Also, she made sure not to confuse prejudice with hate so I applaud her effort for trying not to veer off course. Does the fact that I probably would not even get hard trying to have sex with a transexual, mean I have some sort of cultural prejudice? Probably but it is what it is. But then again, I have also am not attracted to overweight people. Is that a prejudice? Probably if we are being honest about what a preference is.
Do I need to change? Not really. I mean its a shame to those who may want some of this amazing dynamite A1-grade 'D' but I just can[t fuck anything. Trust me I have tried and it doesn't work that way for me.
