mZuzek said:
Lonely_Dolphin said: What? | You're literally buying into HRO's point about victim mentality and stuff. I don't know how being depressed is like, so I don't wanna sound rude or insensitive, but for you to write off everything he said as "rubbing in your face how much better he is" is just ridiculous. He was just showing how he himself got out of a depressing situation, and how anyone can, including you, of course. Stop telling yourself you can't do this, or don't have the confidence to do that, because the only thing that makes you a loser is the fact that you think of yourself as such.
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You can call it victim mentality but I've always been a logic and reason based person, my circumstances will never change that. What makes me a loser is not what anyone thinks but simply that I fit the definition as one who fails and doesn't succeed. It's cold, it's harsh, but it's the truth. Even if I manage to better my situation, my viewpoint would remain the same that not everyone has equal ability and opportunity to better their life as there's just too many people in the world for this not to be true. I'm fully aware that the issues I think I can't get through are nothing compared to what other people have to deal with.