I'm completely and utterly alone, ask me anything! <(^_^<)

[Lonely_Dolphin]

HintHRO said:

''I'm too far gone. It's too late for me. For some people it's already too late, that's reality.''

If that isn't victim mentality, I don't know what is. It's like he is justifying his miserable situation and there's no turnaround possible. Look at his response when I suggested speeddating: ''Like I'd have the confidence for that''. That is the exact definition of victim mentality, because he assumes confidence is something you get at birth, not by taking action and experience. I never kissed/fucked a girl before my 26th birthday. I suffered depression two times combined with anxiety disorder. My parents fought in front of me. Now I have the best friends, I date multiple girls, finished a bachelor degree in medical sciences. There's always a turnaround possible. Fucking always. Even when you yourself are to blame for the situation.

But it's not up to me to change his life. So I'll leave it at this.

You can believe I have victim mentality for whatever that's worth, but just because you solved your problem doesn't mean everyone can solve theirs, that there's always a solution. Also I don't assume you get confidence at birth, but whatevs. Thanks for taking the time to rub in how much better off you are I guess. :L