Kyuu said:
What victim mentality? If anything, he gives himself far too little credit and takes full responsibility for things he isn't entirely responsible for. Isn't this the polar-opposite of victim mentality? |
''I'm too far gone. It's too late for me. For some people it's already too late, that's reality.''
If that isn't victim mentality, I don't know what is. It's like he is justifying his miserable situation and there's no turnaround possible. Look at his response when I suggested speeddating: ''Like I'd have the confidence for that''. That is the exact definition of victim mentality, because he assumes confidence is something you get at birth, not by taking action and experience. I never kissed/fucked a girl before my 26th birthday. I suffered depression two times combined with anxiety disorder. My parents fought in front of me. Now I have the best friends, I date multiple girls, finished a bachelor degree in medical sciences. There's always a turnaround possible. Fucking always. Even when you yourself are to blame for the situation.
But it's not up to me to change his life. So I'll leave it at this.
Last edited by HintHRO - on 20 August 2018
