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OhNoYouDont said:
There are some dogs that require almost no exercise and will just bum around with you on the couch too. I wasn't sure what type of person you were though. Well, I think rescuing a dog from being incinerated is a good enough reason to get one even if your reasons are entirely selfish otherwise. But I understand that it's additional responsibility and dogs certainly aren't for everybody. I'm pretty Laissez-faire / blasé when it comes to getting friend's phone numbers. Almost all of my numbers have come from group texts or the friend asking me for my number first. I do not know if this speaks to you, but if you're running low on people to hang out with that may be a reason why. I'm very independent and introverted so I do not require much social interaction but when people do ask me to hangout I usually acquiesce because I don't want to be left out. As to your last point, I would suggest you reflect on that a bit more. Your reasons to exist should not be reliant upon the existence of others. Could those people enhance your life? Sure, but they should not be considered as reasons for living. |
That would fall under not reaching out so yeah. It'd certainly be easier if people reached out to me, but of course that's not how it works. How does one come to not desire social interaction? I sure wish that could be the case for me.
You should have some reason to live, otherwise why bother? The reasons can be anything of course, but I bet for most people friends and familiy are among them.
