This may sound bizzare, but I envy you.
When it was just me I did the things I enjoyed doing. On occasions I would catch up with old friends if they needed to, but never really felt the need to instigate that meeting from my own end. I guess I enjoyed helping others with their problems but never asked for others to help me with mind kind of logic.
Then I got married and it's like my time is being eaten away by another person. I love my wife and all but for someone who hardly sleeps (3-4hours a day) to give up time (especially when you are working 12 hours a day) that i spent on myself has been a big adjustment, I wish we had 30hours in a day lol.
Now obviously that is not normal for most people, so I wouldn't recommend forcing yourself to embrace that life style. I hope whatever you need in life you will find.
