The controller is different if your not used to it. I really have grown to like it again after a couple of years playing the ps4, I know what you mean. I used a controller converter last generation because the ps3 controllers made my hands hurt, they felt small. I found an adapter to let me use the x360 controller on my ps3 and loved it. I have included a link to a possible solution.
https://www.amazon.com/Collective-Minds-CronusMaxPLUS-Dongle-Sound-Card/dp/B0144K8S3M/ref=pd_sim_63_3?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B0144K8S3M&pd_rd_r=NCVND5PWFFBZXESETNCD&pd_rd_w=oFaKQ&pd_rd_wg=ee1i3&psc=1&refRID=NCVND5PWFFBZXESETNCD&dpID=31qrYTZLQAL&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=detail
I hope this helps, enjoy your mult-system setup, being able to enjoy it all. I could never go back to a single system.
