I'm buying 2. An Xbox One X and an S (that one goes to the gym).
Black Desert Online, the only other games I would consider to recommend given your tastes would be Dead Rising 3, Sunset Overdrive, ReCore, State of Decay 2, and Sea of Thieves. Sea of Thieves is a little barren right now but Rare is ramping up content. I would also suggest Looking into Forza Horizon 4 since it is not your typical racing game and is open world. Also keep a look out on a game called Ashen it looks very promising.