"Incel" terrorism

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Illusion said:

The real problem here is that today's society reinforces a certain behavior in men that is biologically unattractive to women. Women are biologically attracted to alpha males: men who are socially dominant and are able to express themselves with confidence in social situations (ie. football team captains, guys who ride motorcycles, guys who are musicians or artists and are good at expressing themselves, guys who are just fun and aren't afraid to crack jokes around a woman). A guy who can confidently have a conversation with a beautiful woman and tell jokes and be well-adjusted without having any fear of rejection to a woman is the equivalent of a stunning blond to a guy. I am not saying that personal interests, chemistry, values, etc... isn't important on an intellectual level to women, but it is a man's confidence that always forms the basis of sexual attraction in women. Even if you are half and half with some alpha and beta qualities, your girlfriend or wife's attraction to you will always be based on the alpha male traits that you do exhibit.

If you want to figure out how to get with women understand this: alpha males does not equal abuser, it does not mean sexist, and it does not mean treating women disrespectfully. John Wayne was a great example of an alpha male who was also a gentleman. Women will always be attracted to alpha males because there are a 100 million years of evolution backing up why women should be attracted to these kinds of men just like why men find large hips, well-formed breasts and facial symmetry to be attractive. To deny this is to deny reality.

The problem is that society tells men that it is good to be submissive and ashamed of themselves and that they should act more like women (it also tells women to act more like men). Women acting more like men isn't a problem from an attraction point of view since men are mainly biologically attracted to physical features and not so much feminine behavior. Unfortunately, for men who exhibit weak or submissive qualities, their dating prospects become greatly diminished since they are unable to create attraction in the opposite sex which is predominantly based on behavior. The worst part is that most women don't even consciously understand what they are attracted to and most will not admit that they find alpha males attractive since they think it is anti-feminist. As a result, there is very little guidance out there for men who have difficulty creating attraction in women. They can be as polite and kind as they want and even make themselves look as good as they can (including muscles and working out), but their dating success will be very limited if they are not able to exude the confident personality traits that drive women crazy.

The key is to just try to be the best version of yourself and try to cultivate self-confidence in whatever you do. Become a guider, a protector a helper and try to follow your conscience and do what is right. By becoming a good person and following what you know to be right, you will naturally start to become more confident around other people. Women will notice this too. You may never attract a super model, but you are likely to find somebody and it won't be artificial or an act.

 

" They can be as polite and kind as they want"

this goes double for the in my opinion fake feminist men out there that think by pandering the idiotic feminist nonsense that is foisted on them that women will appreciate them

when ironically all it does is repulse women on a deep level subconsciously even though consciously they'll say that's what they want

 

" alpha males does not equal abuser, it does not mean sexist"

the problem is it can equal abuser and despite their attraction to these traits women also deeply fear them because they can lead to abusive behavior

so that's where the idea of toxic masculinity comes from where these traits are viciously attacked and shamed by women even though they find them attractive

men look at this and get confused because they can clearly see that there is a schism formed when women say they dislike these traits but then end up preferring men with these traits constantly

these men as a result instead of using their common sense and making the judgement that it is what people do, not what they say that shows the driving influence in their behavior take the criticism at face value(despite observing contradictory behavior) and attempt to suppress their masculinity thinking that its the right thing to do to become weak and cowardly... that's where incels are born man

 

honestly i see no solution to this problem because despite the idiotic feminist nonsense about men and society constantly disregarding the needs of women, the truth is that men in particular have always been to a great extent sensitive to the expressed desires of women

if that was not the case you could not have men going along with this nonsense even though it is clearly nonsense and those men are trapped, because they want to do what women tell them is the right thing to do but it'll only end in them being cast aside and growing resentful as a result

 

but you better watch yourself, it'll soon become hate speech to make comments like this(if it is not already), since the prevailing narrative that is becoming more and more entrenched in society is the idea that men and women are the exact same psychologically and only diverge due to social pressure