I think what happens then is that he won't say certain things and would just keep thinking those things but just not say it.
I think it is way more healthy if a couple just lays down at night and see some tv show and say "o that girl is hot, isn't she?" and then the other says yea or no, I think that just opens up discussion and shows you everything that is in your wife/husband mind. But for a bf/gf relationship it is maybe not so good to be so open and is better to not reveal everything that is in your mind.







