CrazyGamer2017 said:
To themselves. It's by being critical to yourself that you progress in life. And before someone misconstrue what I just said, I DO NOT mean blaming yourself for being raped, I meant take responsibility that you ended up marrying a person that turned out to be dangerous and that you now realize that you obviously did not know him well enough to marry him. If you don't do that you can fall again for another rapist later on. Because if you don't take responsibility, why should you be careful of who you marry, in fact, marry someone you don't know and that you met 5 minutes ago, if something goes wrong, it's not your responsibility so you are not supposed to be careful of whom you marry because according to you guys it's not your responsibility to know who you marry. See how not taking responsibility for your choices can even be dangerous? I honestly don't know how to make my point more clear, just as I don't know how to make you guys understand that I DO NOT approve of rape, in fact I consider it abhorrent. Yet I am willing to be that some of you think that I am ok with rape or something, you got that idea stuck in your heads, judgement has been passed and nothing I can say will probably change your minds. |
That's not even what your original argument/post was though, that you should have known more about the person you were marrying better beforehand. Let's go back to your original post:
http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=8771892
You see, your argument was not even that, it was that they should expect for their spouse to want to have sex with them, and that it's a non sequitur when you object to that person wanting to have sex with you, so essentially that they shouldn't complain when they're raped. You've had to shift and move around your argument in order to make it more acceptable.
