Cheating in relationships

[Farsala]

VGPolyglot said:

Farsala said:

What the OP did? Not a chance. Would just lower my opinion of her. The thoughts would always be in the back of my mind, it would be hard to trust her again even after she did something so minor. The pain between us would be quite unnecessary. She might even think to do it again, but as long as she tells me its okay right. Not so simple.

While if she didn't tell me, then we act happy and the relationship gets stronger or weaker through normal means.

I'd be upset that the person did it, but it takes a lot of courage to come clean to someone like that.

It's multifaceted for sure, and I have a lot of opinions about it. But maybe another time or in a pm.

On a different note, if she did it even when she is drunk then their might be problems already. And problems in the relationship could be either person's fault, though the cheating is obviously solely the offending person's fault.