Cheating in relationships

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VGPolyglot said:

Rab said:

We as humans break things all the time often by mistake, life is messy, it's your choice of cause to abandon the relationship, but if you just made a mistake once and really love your partner you would be a fool to really destroy your and your partners chance for happiness, but if your a serial cheater then to hell with you  

If your partner cheated on you, wouldn't you want to know?

What the OP did? Not a chance. Would just lower my opinion of her. The thoughts would always be in the back of my mind, it would be hard to trust her again even after she did something so minor. The pain between us would be quite unnecessary. She might even think to do it again, but as long as she tells me its okay right. Not so simple.

While if she didn't tell me, then we act happy and the relationship gets stronger or weaker through normal means.