Cheating in relationships

[Rab]

VGPolyglot said:

Rab said:

Not confusing anything, it's the pain you will cause by being selfish twice, once when you cheated (this pain you can keep to yourself), and again selfishly telling your partner you cheated so you can feel better (a pain your giving to someone else)

So, pretty much everything is selfish then.

It's selfish that you cheated, and selfish that you passed on your guilt 

What is self sacrificing would be to commit to never doing it again, and living with your own guilt as it's your own responsibility