Cheating in relationships

[Rab]

VGPolyglot said:

Rab said:
Confessing your guilt is only passing on that responsibility and pain to someone who did not deserve it so you feel a bit better about yourself, it is selfish, show some maturity and think of your partner's feelings

Most of you guys have been watching far too many Hollywood movies :p

You're confusing what they did not deserve, it's not the truth that they don't deserve, it's the cheating in the first place that they didn't deserve.

Not confusing anything, it's the pain you will cause by being selfish twice, once when you cheated (this pain you can keep to yourself), and again selfishly telling your partner you cheated so you can feel better (a pain your giving to someone else)