Cheating in relationships

[Rab]

VGPolyglot said:

Rab said:

It's totally related

As I have already explained alleviating your guilt by confessing is putting the burden squarely on your loved one's shoulders who now has to deal with this terrible news, it's a selfish act to alleviate your own guilty conscience , leave your loved one in peacefully ignorance and spare them the suffering, and learn to carry your own guilt, sparing others pain 

But that's ignoring the possibility that they find out via other means.

Well they WILL find out if you tell them and hurt them in the process, and if they do anyway which is far from guaranteed, suck it up, take it and move on, your mistake, your responsibility   

Last edited by Rab - on 16 March 2018