Cheating in relationships

[PSintend0]

StarOcean said:

PSintend0 said:

People are not perfect and a girl kissed him while he was very drunk etc. so its not that black and white, however telling is probable better than feeling guilty and wandering when she is going to find out. And if they haven´t even talked on what is accepted and what is off limits then its even more on the grey area. For many just a quick kiss isn´t that big of a deal, but everyone is different. I woulnd´t be mad about that.

What is this jumbled up mess of word vomit trying to convey? Whatever message it is, it isn’t convincing.

1. People like you, me and everyone else are not perfect. People make mistakes.

2. He (the person who made this thread) said that he was drunk etc. and a girl kissed him.

3. He clearly feels bad for doing it and also for keeping it secret.

4. He should tell his girlfriend about what happened, instead of feeling bad and waiting for her to find it out.

5. Have they talked about boundaries and rules of their relationship, what is accepted and what isn´t? If not, then they definetely should do so! That could be a good moment come clean.

6. Many people would be okay with it. Many people can forgive that kind of mistake.

7. I would most likely forgive.

8. Its not the end of the world and he is not the worst person ever. Its not that black and white.

9. Did this clear things up?

10. The jumbled up mess of word vomit was convincing.