Cheating in relationships

[Farsala]

VGPolyglot said:

Farsala said:

Agreed. I certainly wouldn't want to know, especially something so minor as kissing and after so many months. Although I would definitely take a wife much more seriously then a GF. It would just change my opinion of the other person for the worse. Sometimes skeletons in the closet come up 20 years after the fact and couples fight over something that is just so long past, it is just so pointless.  The relationship has bigger problems if they can't leave something in the grave like it should be.

As always though, you run the risk of the person finding out via other means, and it's better to pre-empt that by telling them yourself.

If you do tell, it is better to say it day 1, I agree. But since its been months, I think it would be better to not tell. Would just cause more problems, and if found out, he could probably say he doesn't remember the exact details of that night. But since she is possessive and jealous type, it is going to be bad no matter what. (which is why I don't look for that type :P)