Your edit was after my first post.
I'm gonna be foreal with you though, the fact that you've kept something like that from your girlfriend for months is already pretty bad in itself (how would you feel if she did the same thing and hid it from you for months), but it also seems like you're only worried about protecting yourself rather than telling the truth, since you seemed fine with hiding what happened until now and are only worried that she might find out from someone else. You even said that you don't want her to find out from anyone but you, but it's been months already of you hiding it, seems like you never even had plans to tell her in the first place.
You should have just told her months ago when it happened. You've made the situation a million times worse now because of that, now she might think you've been hiding other stuff from her too. It's up to you on what you decide to do though, just saying my thoughts on the matter since you decided to share the situation.
Last edited by FloatingWaffles - on 14 March 2018
