Cheating in relationships

[The_Yoda]

Qwark said:

A relationship is built on trust, so trying to cover it up isn't the best way to handle this situation. As you said you don't want her to find our through someone else. So I suggest you grow a pair and confront her with the situation and evaluate your current relationship after.

IMO what you did was stupid and not very chivalrous since you are in a relationship. On the other hand you regret it from happening and don't really have emotional ties with the other person. So if it were my relationship I wouldn't deem the act unforgivable, however keeping quiet and trying to shove it under a rug would.

 

Anyway I would say she deserves to know. As for the question if it's cheating. Yes but a relatively light grade, but it was still cheating.

I agree with the above.   Add to that the fact you tried to sweep it under the rug and your relationship is probably over.  At this point you can either try to come clean as others have suggested or roll the dice and see if she never finds out (provided you can continue to live with it)