| adisababa said: Just want to know what's your opinion on cheating? Would you ever excuse it? What do you consider cheating? I'm in a bit of a mess soooo just want to know... Edit: For those who want to know, I kinda cheated on my girlfriend. I made out with a girl in a party but I stopped it from going any further and thankfully we didn't have sex and thankfully my friends stayed quiet about the situation, I was drunk out of my mind and did some stupid drug and she kinda dragged me to kiss her, I know it sounds like an excuse but it's true. I didn't tell my girlfriend and I told my friends to be quiet and I swept it under the rug. Never went to parties since, not my kind of thing, don't want to get crazy and I like spending time in a more intimate and small space with small groups of friends rather than a crazy, epileptic puke smelling place. So a few months later, I see the girl in my school for some project and wow is it killing me inside when I'm right in front of her with my girlfriend because now there's risk of it being dug up again and I don't want her to find out any other way but from me. She doesn't have a lot of friends besides me thankfully but the occasional girl gossip can reach her and I don't want that. Is that cheating? Come on, that can't be cheating, right? |
If she kissed you, you should have told your girlfriend and try to solve this out. Everyday that passes by, it becomes a bigger thing and more hard to forgive. The thing is: how would you feel if it was the other way around? Not trying to make you feel guilty, because that's with you and different people have different thoughts about what is cheating, but I think you should wonder what would you want your girlfriend to do if she betrayed you. And then do it. Seriously, it's very hard to live with a secret like that, always afraid of being discovered.
I never cheated, at least not physically, but in the past I had strong feelings about a girl while being with my ex-GF. Eventually, we broke up and I forced myself to wait a few months to be with the girl that I liked, because I didn't want to feel as I was cheating on my ex or exchanging her.
