Aziz Ansari Is Guilty. Of Not Being a Mind Reader - NYT

[DonFerrari]

o_O.Q said:

DonFerrari said:

So you are not ready to call her a liar, but is read to call him a rapist? I must have missed those classes of innocent until proven guilty.

Non-verbal cue can be clear, but how would you know if the ones she gave were? If he was disregarding her cues and is a rapist why would he stop when she said no, why would she stay hugged with him while waiting for the cab, why would she call later?

"Non-verbal cue can be clear, but how would you know if the ones she gave were?"

i don't and i suppose that''s the crux of the argument

Nope, the crux of the argument is innocent until proven guilty and possible false accusation and slander.

o_O.Q said:

TheLegendaryWolf said:

He didn't force himself on her to gratify himself, I mean he stopped as soon as she said NO. Nobody is an expert in non-verbal cues in that type of situation, much less if she had no issue doing oral. If she didn't want none of that, why didn't she state so before things got to the point? 

"He didn't force himself on her to gratify himself, I mean he stopped as soon as she said NO."

if i remember correctly he then pressured her to give him a blowjob afterwards

Nope, by what is in the OP, after she said no and he stopped, he asked if she would prefer to be dressed an see TV.