Aziz Ansari Is Guilty. Of Not Being a Mind Reader - NYT

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DonFerrari said:

VGPolyglot said:

Yes, because it's outrageous to ask for consent before having sex. It's not just a woman thing either, if a woman is making advances on a man or another woman, or a man is making advances on another man, they should ask for consent before they do anything.

I didn't say that women didn't enjoy sex, but just like men, there are certain times, places, situations/circumstances and people that they want to have sex, making sure that it's what they want is the best way to avoid situations like this.

Punching someone without their consent is violence. Having sex without someone's permission (i.e. rape) is also violence.

Well, if you really want the sex, you should be willnig to put up with that if that's what it takes.

I'm glad to have made you proud

Unless you are missing that from saying hello, inviting to dinner, approaching to kiss, going to the apartment, taking clothes out doesn't sign as continuous consent until the person say no then you are just crazy... Because your analogy of crossing someone in the street and punching him would go to crossing someone on the street and inserting the penis on that person, while the other situation would be two people in a box ring fighting without asking at every single punch if they can keep doing it but stopping when the other person forfeit.

Are you adhering to those people that think that if you kiss your wife while she is still sleeping it is rape because she didn't consent to be kissed at that moment?

I didn't say anything about it being someone crossing the street. There are different levels of comfortability, because someone is fine taking their clothes off and having oral sex doesn't mean that all of a sudden means that she wants her vagina penetrated and ejaculated in. I don't think that Aziz Ansari should be criminally responsible for what he did, but I think that he could have avoided this situation by just asking.