Aziz Ansari Is Guilty. Of Not Being a Mind Reader - NYT

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VGPolyglot said:

JWeinCom said:

No, the easiest way to avoid this is for the girl to say no or stop when the guy is doing something she doesn't want to do.  

Why should she have to say no first, shouldn't he ask first?

Because she is an adult with agency.  It is her job to express clearly what she wants and what she does not want.