VGPolyglot said:
Umm, I'm going to need some proof of that. Let's ask the women here to find out. |
There was a 2014 study I'm trying to find that basically demonstrated it, but it is more or less something all straight men discover with experience.
Whenever I have sex (this is assuming it is a girl you know well) I never ask for it ... and she never asks me if I'm in the mood either. It is just something you consent to in a nonverbal fashion. If you don't want it, usually you can make your intentions known ... "I'm not feeling well," "I'm tired," etc. etc. Both I and my girlfriend have used that. Honestly a flat out "No!" comes off as incredibly rude and insensitive. Of course, you may want to feel things out more if it is a girl you don't know well ... even still a "I want you" sounds smoother than "do I have your consent to engage in sexual intercourse with you now?"








