StarOcean said:
Exactly. I mean in the past I tried to make it about personality only when I was like 13-14. But they really do hate it. Women, along with men, like to be praised for their appearance. I love when my gf tells me she thinks I'm sexy or compliments something about me. I was actually once with a girl who only liked me for my personality. That lasted a week. It was fucking weird XD |
My first relationship (that started when I was just 14 and actually lasted quite long, almost 6 years) was based on liking just the personality. It worked at first because we lived VERY distant from each other. When we get to live close, it obviously ended in a few months. She liked skinny guys with no body hair and I am a big guy (somewhere between fat and strong) all hairy and with a respectable beard. I like long-haired girls with beatiful legs and feet, and she kept cutting her hair shorter and shorter and also had thin legs and not much of a butt. The point is: personality is good, but without passion for each others body, no relationship can survive.
