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Nem on 23 October 2017
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Hiku said:
Nem said:

I'm confused. You guys obviously know something i don't about relationships.

Did they go like: Oh i like you. I like you too. Can i kiss you? Yeah, sure. 

Did that ever happen? There is just a moment. Sometimes you choose the right moment, sometimes you don't. It doesn't always work, but it comes from an impulse and you either hug/kiss or whatever. But you can't convince me that is not how it works, because it is incredibly awkward otherwise.

Well for starters there's a gigantic difference between going in for a hug/kiss, and jumping into someone's shower naked. Luckily in this case nothing more came from that, but that's a terrifying situation to be put in for the woman, as you're put in a situation that can easily escalate into something else.

As for your question, if what she said is accurate, then I would presume that nothing like "Oh i like you. I like you too. Can i kiss you? Yeah, sure." happened , because she said: "I don't think I had given him any reason to believe I wanted this. I had a boyfriend, and I don't cheat."

And i don't believe her because they were in a road trip of two, behind her boyfriends back presumably getting drunk together and ended up having a relationship after.

So, no, i don't think it's that clear cut. If it was just him misdjudging the situation, why did they hook up later? It doesn't make sense.

Does it make sense to you to go and have a physical relationship with the person that "sexually harassed you"? This story is undoubtibly alot more than it appears.