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monocle_layton said:
AngryLittleAlchemist said:




I legit feel bad for the dude. He is probably a lonely person with no friends who only knows how to communicate with jokes because he doesn't have anything interesting about him aside from that. I love dark humor, there have probably even been times where I've inserted jokes into conversations that didn't need them. I think it's fine to be honest with someone and say that the friendship won't work out. But you probably destroyed him. I guess you have to do what's best for you though, god knows bad jokes are the worst. I could be wrong though, since you probably don't know his personal life much. I just know that in High School, I resorted to being a class clown to get any interaction I could. And if I was in college right now I'd probably do the same.

After talking to him I realized that's the case. I suppose I want him to know that no matter how harsh I may be with someone, it's only because I believe they can improve. 

 

I had to deal with people talking smack about me, and it hurt. If he's willing to start a convo. with me and apologize, then I'm going to help.

Is the people talking smack about you related, or are you saying that's why you're careful around people? Either way, I'm glad things can improve and I hope you guys at least become decent friends. Of course the fault isn't yours at all, I hope my comment wasn't too imposing. I just think for people like him, that one guy, even if the feeling isn't replicated, is on a much higher level of appreciation than vice versa. If that makes sense?

Also, I guess I'm kind of a hypocrite, because when I was like 11, this kid on the playground who was my friend said he would fuck my mom. We were kind of fighting for no reason, and that pretty much sealed the deal that I wasn't his friend anymore. Thinking back on it, he was much more  mature than me from a vocabulary standpoint I guessk, where saying something like that wasn't ultra offensive. But I still felt like an 8 year old would, xD