By using this site, you agree to our Privacy Policy and our Terms of Use. Close

Now, let's think about this. I'm a heterosexual man. I'm going to assume that the video in question was created by another man. Therefore, I'm "getting off" based on the what some other guy is telling me what to do. It's one thing if a woman was calling the shots. I can work with that because it's like I'm with a woman while I'm "doing it." But knowing that it's a man "telling me what to do" sort of invades that "private space." Besides, who'd want to win at this sort of game anyway? I thought "winning" was what it was all about.