| mZuzek said: I'm not saying you were offended. You told me not to try to make people feel better. Not in those words of course, but that's how I read it. I was offended, so I tried to make my point clear. Either way, I have noticed a trend of you eventually thinking someone's annoyed or "defensive" if a discussion goes on for too long, I recommend you work on that... and watch the movie, too. |
I was just clearing the air. Also, you yourself are admitting you got defensive. I didn't assume you were getting defensive, i'm just saying that i've been an asshole before which caused big reply chains, and I don't want to be like that, and unfortunately this became a big reply chain, which makes me look like an asshole when really I was just giving some friendly advice. I would stop replying, but you keep saying stuff that warrants a reply. Anyways, I don't think it's a good idea to use a marvel movie as the basis for correcting someone on how they feel. In general the whole "don't feel this way" or "it's not that bad!" attitude is overplayed and it doesn't solve anything. But that's all I have to say , i'm just giving free friendly advice.
