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[TheLastStarFighter]

trasharmdsister12 said:

TheLastStarFighter said:

 The first step for an easier/possibily happier existence for you is to realize and accept that no one cares about how you look.  In fact, they probably don't focus on you much at all, because they have their own life and anxieties to deal with.  If you can achieve this state of mind, you will enjoy a new level of freedom.

I'd agree that some don't. But in my experience, many do. I'm not just talking about whether someone looks good or bad. I'm talking about the image one presents and what people gather from it on first glance. And maxing out 3 different dating apps every day for 3 years and getting 0 legitimate matches is evidence enough that looks still matter. But I could provide more if required.

And yes, you are almost certainly presenting a negative image.  Online matches have much less to do with looks, especially for men.