Nymeria said:
In my experience the average person doesn't understand finances, and the 16-25 year bracket even less so. Asking them to figure it out has in part led us down this path. Can call it condescending, but these things need to be explained to them. I know many parents with good intentions put pressure on the golden ticket of university and how it assured middle class status. Why I mentioned a new conversation needs to be had about education, training, and careers. We, as in millenials, are the first generation since the depression era to take a step backward financially and that new normal brings adjusted expectations. I think we mostly agree that inflated expectations have come crashing down on people in their 20s and 30s. I think high school should be more job and life oriented with a subject simply called "life" where you learn skills around the house, understand taxes, how to do all sorts of basic aspects of being an adult. I know some really smart 18-22 year olds who revert back to 12 year olds when it comes to capacity to take care of themselves and handle adult situations. |
Agree with you there 100%
at the bolded, How could I forget that it was thanks to my parents that basicly stoped me and grounded my thoughts about going to a really expensive university. If I dint have the parents I have who might as well said yea, go to any uni you want, even as an engenier I would be like 80k under and that would suck. Thankfully I worked part time, my parents convinced me to go to a cheaper school and they paid for most of it so I got out debt free.
I guess I was braging and I was about to do something almost as stupid myself :p
But still, its in high school that it should have been thought and why most kids are going through this issue.
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