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guiduc said:
Safiir said:

Again - if you find watching two ugly/fat/old people have sex disgusting does that make you uglophob/fatofob/oldofob (yeah I just made those up)? You don't have to like something in order to accept it. And tbh suggesting this kind of thought policing is extremely disturbing. Everyone has the right to think anything as long as they don't act on those thoughts in a harmful manner.

Comparing it to beastiality is a damn big problem. I'm denouncing a very problematic state of mind in which the OP has engaged himself, and what needs to be done in order to change it. This is about changing a given perception of a community, because he directly associates it with imagery that shouldn't DISGUST him, and disgust is the word here. He doesn't have to like it, I'm not saying the contrary. But being disgusted is a far more intense sentiment that should not be condoned. Approval cannot come along disgust, they are in no way compatible. And we are not talking about watching people fuck, we are talking about seeing people together and create imagery in our mind that disgusts us. This is two very different situations.

If we let people feel that repel, and are not trying to change this clearly social-design approach to homosexuality, it will become a problem. 50 years from now, people were disgusted by the only thought of their son being with another man. It still needs to evolved - how we are perceived and such. That includes not feeling disgust while thinking about sex between two men or two women, mainly because anal sex shouldn't be labeled as a gay-sex practice. If we do, that means we haven't evolved as a society. You understand what I'm saying?

No, I agree with this post. And personally I don't feel disgusted of thinking about gay sex. But as far as I understood the OP it's not about thinking of it but rather seeing it. And there are few things that I'd want to see less than that. Though thinking about it now if it were two fit, handsome (not feminine) men I would probably find it less disgusting than a straight couple of obese man and woman. So yeah it's all about what you're finding aesthetically pleasing.

Again I get what you're saying but I don't agree that you should not feel disgust, dislike or whatever other emotion you have about anything and everything. This is your right and noone should tell you how to feel. But again acting on it is something entirely different. It may be hard to separate the two but that's what we should strive for. Rational mind, not enforced from outside emotions.