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Farsala said:
Attention seeking is talking about oneself more then the other in a conversation >50% focus is showing off while ignoring what they say.

Desire to bond shows a 50/50 interest in them while also not being a stalker and bringing your own stuff to the table.

Stalker of course is just learning about them more then they want to share while revealing nothing interesting to them.

That's a pretty good definition. Attention seekers don't want to bond with you but just use you.