Goodnightmoon said:
You can't imagine letting your preferences dominating your identity, but you and your identity are always on the same side. |
You seem to have misread my comment. What i can't imagine is allowing one of my preferences to dominate my identity to the point i have to either control the limits of other people's subjectivity, or consistently question deviations from my internal narrative. The combination of the bolded parts is very different from claiming i'm separate from my preferences as a whole, which i'm obviously not.
Regardless, my comment was aimed at the attitude pokoko was describing, not you specifically. If you think it applies to you then okay, but that's secondary.